A Slightly Better Thanksgiving

November 27th, 2025

Thanksgiving has not been a happy day for me the past two years. In 2023, we were still in the hopeful stage that Jan might get a couple of good years, and that maybe a cure might be developed by then. I was not exactly in a thankful mood about anything, other than that she was still with me, and we could enjoy dinner (and life) together. For Thanksgiving 2024, Jan was gone for over 6 months. And I had just returned from the Galápagos Islands, and my brother had just died of undiagnosed, stage 4 liver cancer while I was away. Yeah, forget being thankful about anything.

Fast forward another year. What have I got to be thankful for? Well, I’ve been on a lot of really interesting trips and seen some amazing places. Right now, I’m sitting in the forward lounge of a National Geographic/Lindblad expedition ship, watching as we approach the Argentine coast line which is free from glaciers, snow, ice and penguin poop. A welcome site after the past week in Antarctica. I should be thankful that I was able to go on such an incredible trip, and I am. But I still wish Jan had been with me…or at least that she was waiting for me at home. She never would have gone on this trip. 

But, I’m past the awful stages of grieving, something else to be thankful for. Other than that, I’m thankful that I’ve had a strong support group of friends and family…a few more locally would be a good thing. I’m thankful and surprised that I’ve adapted enough the past year to be able to go off on my own and socialize with a ship full of strangers. Each trip does get easier.  

And I’m thankful that my soul mate did such a great job with our financials, so that I can live this new life of mine as the travelingwidower.com. But I would rather that she were still here with me to enjoy all the travel. Something I’ll never get over. But, I’ve learned that As Good As It Gets is good enough for me.

One more thing to be thankful for – they served a traditional Thanksgiving dinner tonight – nothing weird, and a marvelous pumpkin pie.

Hope you all had a happy Thanksgiving