Adventures After Grief: A Widower’s Travel Tales

Toadstool Hoodoos, Escalante Az

Introduction

I never expected to become a solo traveler, and I certainly never expected to become The Traveling Widower. After losing Jan, my wife and best friend of 49 years, I found myself trying to figure out what came next. What would version 2.0 of my life be like? Somewhere along the way, travel, photography and writing became part of the answer—not a way to leave the past behind, but a way to keep moving forward, one adventure at a time.

These days, you’ll find me wandering around with far too much camera gear, photographing bears in Alaska, penguins in Antarctica, stars in the desert, or whatever else happens to catch my eye. This blog is where I tell the stories—the adventures, the photographs, the occasional mishaps, and sometimes what it’s like learning to build a new life after losing the person with whom I shared the old one. Come along. I have no idea where we’re going next.

I have grouped my posts into a few categories, to simplify navigation through what has become a very large number of stories and photographs…I do like to write, and sometimes get carried away just a bit. The Travel Stories link will get you to another directory type of page, based on the different places I’ve been to the past few years. The Photography link includes my posts on gear and techniques – most of my more geekish stories. The Photo Galleries already exist, but have been kind of buried in the previous iteration of my blog. Finally, My Life After Loss includes the more personal stories of my struggles with grief, along with more humorous stuff about a wide variety of topics.

So, have at it. Feel free to send comments or feedback. And if you like what you’ve been reading, you can subscribe and always get the latest post in your e-mail inbox.

An older man sitting on the floor of a camera shop, looking distressed while gesturing with his hands. He is surrounded by onlookers and a camera setup on the floor next to him.
A man sitting at a desk with a laptop, surrounded by a collage of nature photographs, featuring landscapes and wildlife. The text 'Photo Galleries' is displayed prominently in the upper section of the image.
A smiling man sits on a deck with a small table and chairs, holding a book titled 'The Indifferent Widower,' beside a golden retriever dog.
A serene scene on a cruise with a golden retriever resting beside a man on a deck overlooking a glacial landscape, while other passengers take photos in the background.
A thoughtful older man wearing glasses and a black beanie leans on a railing aboard a ship, gazing out at a serene icy landscape in the background.
A concerned man on the phone in an office cubicle surrounded by travel maps and flight information, with airplanes flying overhead and the text 'Travel Tips, Odds & Ends' prominently displayed.

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And if you just want to get to the first post:

First trip – Into Thin Air